Want to be Accepted? Stop Judging!

Every time you criticize your neighbor you are setting up a Boomerang effect of self criticisms. It's in this "harmless" gossip that we shed our negative thoughts on strangers. & You are setting up the parameters by which You think others will judge You.

YIKES!

Let me repeat that: When you gossip or pass judgement on someone else you are setting up the thought patterns & paranoia in yourself that others will judge YOU as harshly.

SOOO gossip is a ricochet of judgement.

How you think of others, you too will think of yourself. Bc we get paranoid & think that others are saying the same nasty unproductive things about US.

Ahhh!!!

Spread joy & love and that will ricochet back to you! Bc those are the positive thoughts you are pushing forward so you will believe in others & think they are thinking as Kindly as you are of them.

Today, pay attention to how much you gossip or silently judge others. Everyone does it, so No judgement ;)

Was it more or less than you thought?

Be kind to others & you will be kind to yourself. 

Xo