InTENSEion

Does someones intention matter?

If you are hurt and the other person says that it wasn't their intention to hurt you...



Do you think that matters?


Simply put:
Does Intention matter?!

Dunno...


Bc when I get hurt, I get pissed.
It is very hard for me to see that someone "didn't MEAN to hurt me."

I think hmmm..."Maybe your intention wasn't to hurt me, but you DID"

Ugh.

But...

I guess the difference is there wasn't a bulls eye on my back. I was shot accidentally.

As TENSE as it makes us maybe a closer look needs to be taken to see if the resulting hurt was the shooters intention?

Today, have you hurt someone and it wasn't what you intended? Have you been hurt & was told it wasn't their intention? Is it possible for you to look past the hurt and accept that mistakes happen. Maybe you need to shed light on the hurt you caused and tell them it wasn't your intention.

If you are currently in a TENSE situation where the intention was different from the out-coming hurt maybe now would be the time to explore intention.

Xoxo