Wash the GRAY Out

One of my besties has this rule: 

"How you feel after you leave someone is really what the relationship is about."

So...

You know that Exhausted feeling you get when you hang out with xyz friend?!?

According to her rule: 

That relationship is Exhausting. 

Maybe they are a Taker.

Maybe they are self centered.

Maybe they are just too fast for you.

Or you are one of these to them!  

Whatever the reason...

How you feel right after you say goodbye to someone is what the relationship is about. 

I saw an old ghost on Monday. 

I have been feeling GRAY all week. 

Sad...

Like I can't kick this feeling. 

Until...

I remembered what my bestie said! 

I feel Gray. 

Bc the relationship we have is Gray. 

It's not my fault. 

It's not their fault. 

It just IS. 

Next time I'll avoid Gray. 

Bc it makes me feel sad. 

Think of your favorite friend that makes you feel excited to be ALIVE. How do you feel days after hanging with that person?!?? Now think of your xyz Taker friend, who makes you feel tiiiiiiirrreeeed.

Honor your feelings. 

So many times I deem my feelings as wrong. Telling myself, its not nice to think "that" way. That I should be friends with everybody. 

But...

At the end of the day...

This is the end of my days!

I don't want to feel GRAY. 

I want to feel Exuberant.

Inspired. 

Alive. 

ALL THE TIME! 

Today, Choose to spend your time with friends who LIFT YOU UP :)))

& wash that GRAY right out of your day ;) 

Xoxo