No it ALL

Do you let others be the expert? 

Simple question. 

Hard to answer? 

Huh...

A friend asked me for help with Workn out. She wanted her core strengthened. I showed her a couple of exercises. She cut me off and began doing what her yoga teacher taught her. It was rude. Kurt. 

My feelings were hurt. 

I let her workout however she wanted from then on. Bc it was clear that every tip I was offering she already knew or had a better one. 

I was flabbergasted. 

It was very clear that no one else was allowed to be an expert BUT her. 

Later on, I saw her interface with other experts all resulting the same. She knew everything. They knew nothing. Even if they were paid experts...in fact...

Especially, if they were paid experts. 

It was so ODD. 

I began to think about how I behave. I realized that I too do that. I don't let the experts be the experts. Not necessarily that I know everything just that sometimes I am not being receptive to a new (better) idea. 

Today, are you a know it all? 

How open are you to others input? Do you say no to others ideas? 

Take notice. 

I will too...

;) 

Xoxo