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Second marriage jitters

Sunday, August 18, 2019


I am terrified of getting married again. It was such a shitty experience. 


GD. 


It’s like, I made it out of a burning building why the F would I want to RUN back inside?!?


Dude. 


I am so in love with my man. 

He is THE ONE. For me :)!


But...


I find myself terrified. 

Terrified that he will walk down the aisle and then change. 

Change his mind. Change his wants. Leave. Just ducking* bolt. To bolt and leave. Become someone else. 

That was my first experience. 

He just left. 

Left me closing out our life together. 


With good reason, I do not want that to happen to me, Dottie, our life again. 


In my experience, when a man says yes to marriage, he then can choose to not be married 2 years later, and leave. 


Sadly. 


I know, my man is not that man. 

In my heart, I feel safe and loved. 


All he wants is to get married to me. It is the most beautiful thing I have ever felt. Makes my heart soar!!!


Then...


I shut down. 


Bc...


Now, he wants me. 


But...


Will he want me in 2 years?!?


Today, Does your past hurts dictate your future? 


Take that one in...


Does 

Your

Past 

Hurts

Dictate

Your 

Future

?


Hmm...


Only if we LET it. Right?!?


Aye ya yay. Seems this one is bigger than me. Doing my best to LET it goooo.


Xo

*”ducking” my phone thinks I am classier than I am! ;)


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