Matching Energy

In life, I would find myself getting caught up in someone else's balls being in a twist! Or ZENing out to another's mellow vibe. 

It's a choice. 

My choice. 

I am a Chameleon. 

I can adjust my skin colors, tone, and heat to my surroundings. 

For survival. 

Much like a Chameleon. 

But...

Survival mode is over. 

I no longer want to survive.

I want to THRIVE. 

Matching energy no longer works for me. 

Bc it's so engrained in my childhood coping it's hard to turn off. 

It's a choice. 

My choice. 

Now when someone comes at me with cray, I observe it. 

No longer matching their experience. 

As an observer. 

This tiny tweek in my life experience has shifted a lot for me. 

I am no longer the party favor to be used by someone else's continual drama party! 

I am. 

Still. 

Observing. 

I am.

In my own experience. 

Life.

My life. 

I am. 

Today, do you find yourself getting scooped up into someone else's bullsh*t at every turn?!?! It's not their fault, it's yours. 

YOU are the cruise director of your experiences. And if it's a sh*tty port don't stop there! 

If you came to my house & I gave you a plate of potato salad that I ate & regurgitated, would you eat it?!?!?

Don't accept every invitation you receive. Don't eat sh*t pie. 

Try staying in your own energy and enJOY! 

The good, the bad, only your experience. 

I'll do the same! 

Xoxo