Sexual Chaperone! 

Man...

Been Noodling this a lot. 

So...

I was raised that I could own my sexuality. Only in pursuit to being married. I could have flings and stuff as long as my main goal and purpose was LOVE. Always on the road to marriage and babies. 

Sex=LOVE 

This is a beautiful way to be raised. It keeps girls safe. And parents knowing they raised em right so they will play by the rules to keep them safe. 

But...

What if marriage isn’t your end goal?

Where does that leave the woman then? 

Funny...

I am butting up against a lot of resistance and shoulds. 

Bc the fear of being taken advantage of is real for our moms. They are scared for their daughters. To be taken advantage of. 

But...

What if WE are using the men for sex? 

Duh. 

Today, Do you think Free Love costs you? Are you scared to embrace your sexuality? Elders keeping you in a box concerning your box?!?!

Bahahhaah

Lots to noodle ;)

...about the noodle.

Xoxo

Ps: Been texting with all the smart funny a** woman in my life. Interesting to see how we all are processing this stage in our lives. My bad a** friend and I were texting and I sent her this: 

She texted back that Cher and I were on the same page. And sent this video:

“Mom, I am a Rich Man.”

Which is EVERYTHING!