Sexual Female Pressures

Realizing that I was raised to believe that my only option I thought I was allowed to have was on the wife track. 

F*ck that noise. 

What if I don’t want to be on any track right now? Not to say that if it magically happened I wouldn’t be OPEN to it. I am. And would. 

But...

To trapse through life looking for a partner so I can get the change in title so I can be accepted by the Norms that can’t work. 

Years past, I found myself settling Bc of this internal struggle of thinking I had to have this title. When in fact, it’s a lie. 

There are many titles I can have on my own that don’t need to be endowed upon me. 

Got me thinking...

I am a direct result of this rebellion. My life is an example (no kids/my age/Gypsy lifestyle) of Why the norm doesn’t want Women to think they have options. 

Bc...

If Women were allowed to be nomadic sexual beings then children wouldn’t be raised safely. 

If Women were allowed to be the sexual beings we ARE, than the home would look VERY different. 

Truly believe this is the disconnect for us Women and causes a major discontent. 

Once, we are able to be sexual beings for the pursuit of our own sexual prowess we have a freedom. 

That’s the disconnect, being able to remain free sexually while being told we aren’t allowed to have this freedom and even movement. 

Few Woman embrace this. 

Lucky to say, I have the few as close ass BFF’s. 

Today, Do you think you are allowed to be sexual within certain confines? Is there a framework in place of how your sexual into romantic life Should look? Do you have the “Shoulds?”

I am so interested in this as a topic.

Xoxo

Ps: this is my part of our text exchange :)