HOW we get to our goal matters

In the past, I would work my a*% off!!!

And arrive at my goal f*%cking EXHAUSTED. All those around me equally exhausted. 

All I know, is this time around I want to arrive in tact. 

I’m okay with being tired from working hard. 

But...

I am not okay with being tired from beating myself up so terribly to get my goal that when I finally arrive I am broken. 

I was so hard on myself in the past that it was almost like I thought, “If I don’t succeed at a certain task, I didn’t deserve Love.”

Isn’t that incredibly sad. 

Tragic really. 

This time, I want to be kind to myself on this next ascension up the mountain of life. 

I want to support myself. 

Today, Does the way you treat yourself matter?!!

Think on this. 

Just for a minute. 

Are you kind to yourself? 

If you don’t succeed, do you still deserve love? 

Yikes. 

If I’m honest.

I still feel like, “Eh, noooo! I don’t. I should get back up and try harder.”

No bueno. 

What if I am able to love myself regardless of the outcome?

This time around, HOW I arrive at the finish line matters. HOW I treat myself matters. HOW I choose to love matters. 

Xoxo