Mr.Right---Mr.Wrong

(Part 2: RIGHT of Island)

Fact: When you judge others with an iron fist of Right & Wrong you will start to get paranoid and judge yourself in the same way.

You will isolate yourself from your self!!!!!

You will no longer feel safe within yourself.

Bc there is always a monitor grading your performances.

You Can't be free.
You can't grow!
You can't be childlike!

Children: They just ARE.
Egos haven't had time to be created. Right & Wrongs used to JUDGE haven't been formulated.

"When they do this...it means this.
If they do this...I am going to do this...."
None of these Ego reactions have been set!

Children get hurt. Names are called, fights happen & then they move on.
Why?!?! Bc that little voice hasn't been programmed yet.

The Ego has not been programmed.

Goal: don't judge others harshly bc it is a Boomerang Effect to how you will judge yourself.

Lego your Ego!

Um...

But you KNOW right behavior from Wrong!!! How could you ever possibly bite your tongue?!?!

Choice.

You say you want to be happy? You want to be at peace? You want to co-exist?

Choose to shift.

Here is how:

Be kind.
If you choose kindness.
Empathy. Compassion. You can RISE above the situation. To not let it Affect you.

See it as a simple misconnect. Then take the CHARGE out of it.


Most importantly we will then in turn be kind to ourselves. We will then be compassionate to our inner selves!

Nobody ever, NEVER wants to feel isolated :(((( Especially, from ourselves!!!

Judgement creates isolation.

SOOO be kind in your judgement of others & you too will be kind with judgements of yourself.

This is in addition to the original GSTQ post on this topic: "Want to be Accepted? Stop Judging!" written on March 13th, 2012.

(This was the second GSTQ post ever written!!!)What I would like to add onto this previous GSTQ post:

Want to be free within yourself & grow & change & move forward? Be kind of your assessment of others. The harsher you are on others the harsher you will be on yourself. The more of a separation between self & others will happen. Until eventually there is a separation between self & self bc you have isolated yourself so much that you are UNHAPPY.

How could you Feel Happy when everyone else is wrong? How can you feel Right when it feels so wrong to be alone in your Rightness?

Here is an example of how I think it goes:
Uncle Richie: judged others harshly. Right & Wrong. He knew what Right was-what it looked like, sounded like, smelt like. This is Right. THAT is Wrong.

With this precise definition of Right he now judges himself.

Bc there is no flexibility.
There is no room for era.

This harshness of RIGHT.
Makes there Always have to be a Wrong.

Right---------------Wrong

We all want & deserve love.
We need to accept the possibility of degrees of Right & Wrong.
Or else we will become isolated, sad & alone :(

Today, think of that crotchety Uncle of yours who Knows RIGHT. He lived himself Right into isolation! Right has made him sadly wronged :(
Do you want to become that?!?

No...

He doesn't either. Send him LOVE vibes :)))) send the Ego maniac inside of you LOVE!!!! Blindside those with the need to be right with the one thing that it never expects...L-O-V-E :)))))

Xo